“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”
— Friedrich Nietzsche
Honestly, I don’t understand why being called “whipped” in a relationship is a thing. Like, yes, if my significant other needs something that will become my main priority. If they aren’t feeling well and want me there, I will drop everything and be there. Even if they just want a night in with movies and me, I will do everything I can to make sure it happens. Not because I am “whipped” but because I am in love, because my person, need/wants me and they are my priority. There will be more parties and nights out, but there will only be so many chances to show your person how dedicated you are. You can make more friends if your friendships are built upon something as frail as a night out, but, you can’t make up lost time with your future husband/wife/person. It’s not being whipped, it’s being generous, it’s being caring and compassionate, it’s being in love. I don’t understand why some people find that so hard to grasp. Being the best significant other you can be is not being whipped, it is you wanting to build your future with someone.
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